Gary Elder

1982 - 2008
LocationBallymena
Age26 years
Cause of DeathAccident
Date of Birth23/04/1982
Date of Death11/08/2008
Visitors3,552 since 03/09/2008
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This page is for my wonderfull fiance Gary who i love with all my heart. Gary is loved dearly by all
his family and friends. He loved playin and watchin football his favourite team Liverpool.

He worked as a storeman in Costcutters garage which he really enjoyed, always had a laugh with the
other staff. He was so easy goin always made me laugh.

I have known Gary for about 12 years, we used to run about 2gether when we were at school. We lost
contact 4 a few years after school finished.

6th September 2006 i was at a music festival Planet Love and fate brought me to Gary again. We were
2gether all the time from that day and got engaged September 2007.

Gary was my soulmate we were perfect together. The bond we have will never be broken, the years i
had with him are the best years of my life. x x


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missing u

Its been a few months since you've been gone,
It hasn't been very easy,
but im still holding on,
I still often wonder, what happened that fateful night,
What really happended , did you know the end was in sight?
Did God come to you and say it was your time?
And there you stood at the pearly gates in line,
Looking down at us all in tears,
And you wanted to come and calm all our fears,
For now your in a place so beautiful, so clean,
A place where God can be seen,
I never thought this would happen in a million years,
You come to me in my dreams at night,
And when I awake, there are always tears,
What would I do, if I could only hold you tight,
And to again hear your laughter,
Until we meet again, in the life ever after.

Lisa Carlin (Partner) January 13, 2009

all my love

Love is the greatest feeling,
Love is like a play,
Love is what I feel for you,
Each and every day,
Love is like a smile,
Love is like a song,
Love is a great emotion,
That keeps me going strong,
I love you with my heart,
My body and my soul,
I love the way I keep loving,
Like a love I can't control,
So remember each and every day,
I love you with all my heart,
And I have poured my entire soul into you,
Right from the very start.

Lisa Carlin (Partner) January 13, 2009

eternal flame for you gary xxx

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Irene Anness Family (Friend) December 28, 2008

merry christmas gary xxx

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Irene Anness Family (Friend) December 23, 2008

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MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY 2009 XXXX

Irene Anness Family (Friend) December 8, 2008

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all the best of health for 2009 to all of you
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Irene Anness Family (Friend) December 7, 2008

So sorry for your loss.I lost my son to a car accident at the age of 25 years...way to young.

Broken Mom (GTS Friend) November 7, 2008

REST IN PEACE XXX

════╔══╗GONE BUT
════║══║NOT FORGOTTEN
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════║══║GOD BLESS YOU ALL
════║══║MY LOVE TO YOU
════║══║AND YOUR LOVED ONES
════║══║ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS AND OUR MINDS

SWEET DREAMS GARY XXXXX

Irene Anness Family (Friend) November 2, 2008

my sweet friend, i send this to you & your family

I recieved this lovely poem today
I would like to share it with you
Its just a way of saying Im grateful
For everything you do

If I could build a mountain
You could call your very own;
A place to find serenity,
A place to be alone.

If I could take your troubles
I would toss them in the sea,
But all these things I'm finding
are impossible for me.

I cannot build a mountain
Or catch a rainbow fair,
But let me be what I know best,
A friend who's always there.


I recieved this lovely poem today
I would like to share it with you
Its just a way of saying Im grateful
For everything you do

If I could build a mountain
You could call your very own;
A place to find serenity,
A place to be alone.

If I could take your troubles
I would toss them in the sea,
But all these things I'm finding
are impossible for me.

I cannot build a mountain
Or catch a rainbow fair,
But let me be what I know best,
A friend who's always there.

thank you for all your support to me & my family on low and sad days
god bless you and your loved ones


Pass this on to all your close friends

Irene Anness Family (Friend) October 27, 2008

~* SENT WITH LOVE *~

SPECIAL FRIEND X
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If u love me as a friend u'll read the whole thing. What would you do if for every moment you were truly happy there would be 10 moments of sadness? What would you do if your best friend died tomorrow and you never got to tell them how you felt? So, I just wanted to say, even if I never talk to you again in my life, you are special to me and you have made a difference in my life. I look up to you, respect you, and truly cherish you. Send this to all your friends, no matter how often you talk, or how close you are, and send it to the person who sent it to you. Let old friends know you haven't forgotten them, and tell new friends you never will. Remember, everyone needs a friend. dont ever leave the one u love for the one u like, because the one u like will leave u for the one they love.
If you wake up in a red room with no windows and doors, DON'T panic.. you're just in my heart!!! Send this to all the friends you want to keep forever...
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Dot Terri-Ann Nana October 20, 2008
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