Gary Elder

1982 - 2008
LocationBallymena
Age26 years
Cause of DeathAccident
Date of Birth23/04/1982
Date of Death11/08/2008
Visitors3,554 since 03/09/2008
Creator

This page is for my wonderfull fiance Gary who i love with all my heart. Gary is loved dearly by all
his family and friends. He loved playin and watchin football his favourite team Liverpool.

He worked as a storeman in Costcutters garage which he really enjoyed, always had a laugh with the
other staff. He was so easy goin always made me laugh.

I have known Gary for about 12 years, we used to run about 2gether when we were at school. We lost
contact 4 a few years after school finished.

6th September 2006 i was at a music festival Planet Love and fate brought me to Gary again. We were
2gether all the time from that day and got engaged September 2007.

Gary was my soulmate we were perfect together. The bond we have will never be broken, the years i
had with him are the best years of my life. x x


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my angel for lisa

GARY
if ive wept alittle since you got your call from god
its because i need and miss you so very much
my heart is broken never to be fixed
my life here is just not the same
i know your with me every step of the way in spirit your always here in my thoughts you really do live on in my heart your both always stay
theres so much i need to say
so much has happend since god called you away
i talk to you how much i miss you everyday
and night please gary give me the strength
to get me through and my angel i really do belive i get all my strength from my special angel in heaven above

Amanda Xxxxx September 7, 2008

God looked around his garden and found an empty place. he then looked down upon the earth and saw your tired face. he put his arms around you and lifted you to rest. his garden must be beautiful he always takes the best. he saw the road was getting rough and the hills were hard to climb, so he closed your weary eyelids and whispered "Peace be thine". it broke our hearts to lose you but you didn’t go alone, for part of us all went with you the day God called you home xxxx

Lisa Carlin (Partner) September 7, 2008

I wrote your name in the sky,
but the wind blew it away.
I wrote your name in the sand,
but the waves washed it away.
I wrote your name in my heart,
and forever it will stay x x x.

Lisa Carlin (Partner) September 5, 2008

i love u

If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth of your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin,
and the feel of your heart beating with mine...
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than you x x x.

Lisa Carlin (Partner) September 5, 2008

FOR LISA

WROTE BY IRENE CARSON 22/08/2008
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IN MY HOURS OF DARKNESS AND ANGUISH,I DONT NEED REMINDING OF HOW I FEEL
WHEN GOD TOOK YOU AWAY,MY HEART TOO HE DID STEAL

HE TOOK YOU AWAY AND GAVE YOU YOUR WINGS TO FLY FREE
YOU FLEW UP HIGH INTO THE SKY AND BEYOND THE CLOUDS TO BE WITH GOD AND NOT WITH ME

GOD LENT YOU TO US JUST FOR A SHORT WHILE
KNOWING YOU'D MAKE US HAPPY AND MAKE US SMILE

AND THAT IS JUST WHAT YOU DID AND MORE
NOW YOU ARE GONE AND ALL OUR HEARTS ARE SORE

WE MISS YOU,ITS LIKE A NIGHTMARE, A BAD DREAM
WE FEEL SO ANGRY,FRUSTRATED,WE WANT TO SCREAM....

Irene Anness Family (Friend) September 5, 2008

WROTE FOR LISA

WROTE BY IRENE CARSON 21st AUGUST 2008

THE PAIN THE SORROW I FEEL INSIDE
I WANT TO SCREAM,SHOUT,RUN AND HIDE

WHY DID IT HAPPEN ? WHY DID YOU HAVE TO GO
I WONDER WILL THIS PAIN INSIDE EVER GO

I WANT ANSWERS,I WANT THEM NOW,PLEASE,PLEAE,PLEASE

I FEEL ANGER,I WANT TO DIE
I SEE YOUR PHOTO'S THEN I CRY

I ALSO REMEMBER OTHERS ARE HURTING TOO
WE ARE ALL HURTING SINCE WE LOST YOU

SOMETIMES I FORGET OTHERS FEEL AS FRUSTRATED AS ME
"BUT" GOD SET YOU FREE

YOU WILL ALWAYS REMAIN IN MY HEART
IN TIME IT WILL EASE THIS PAIN THATS TEARING ME APART

IN YOU I GAVE ALL THE LOVE THAT I HAD
I NEVER THOUGHT LOOSING YOU COULD FEEL SO BAD

I GO TO SEE YOU,WHERE YOU LAY
I THANK GOD FOR THE TIME WE HAD TOGETHER AS I PRAY
I WISH IT HAD BEEN LONGER THAN IT WAS FOR YOU AND ME
"BUT" I KNOW GOD LOVED YOU AS WE ALL DID AND SET YOU FREE

I PLAY MUSIC "OUR MUSIC"AND IMAGINE THE TIMES WE WAS SO IN LOVE
I CAN - NOT SEE NO FURTHER THAN TODAY
ITS SO HARD TO BELIEVE YOU ARE IN HEAVEN ABOVE

YOU GOT YOUR WINGS AND YOU FLEW HIGH
I LOVED YOU SO MUCH,"WHY" DID YOU HAVE TO DIE ?

Irene Anness Family (Friend) September 5, 2008

THOUGHT OF YOU LISA

WROTE BY IRENE CARSON FOR LISA 4th SEPTEMBER 2008
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AS I LAY HERE IN MY BED
THOUGHTS OF YOU,RUNNING THROUGH MY HEAD

I LOOK, I GAZE, I STARE
LOOKING FOR YOU "BUT" YOUR NOT THERE

THEN MY EYE'S FILL UP WITH GRIEF
WONDERING,WHAT TO REALLY BELIEVE

I'D LIKE TO THINK THERE'S A BETTER PLACE AFTER HERE
IF I COULD HOLD YOU JUST ONCE MORE MY DEAR

I LOOK AT THE SKY AT NIGHT
SEE THE STARS AND PRAY YOU ARE ALRIGHT

THEN I DOZE OF TO SLEEP JUST FOR A SHORT WHILE
HOPING TO DREAM OF YOU AND YOUR SWEET SMLE

NOT A MOMENT GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK OF YOU
YOUR ALWAYS IN MY MIND,MY HEART,THAT IS TRUE

MY HEAD IS IN A TERMOIL,LIKE A DISC GOING ROUND AND ROUND
EVERYWHERE IS LONELY NOW,NEVER A SOUND

YOUR SMILE,YOUR TOUCH,YOUR SMELL
I MISS THEM ALL,IM GOING THROUGH HELL

ONE DAY I MIGHT FIND THE ANSWER,UNTIL THEN I WILL GRIEVE
I DONT KNOW ANYMORE,ITS HARD TO KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE

I FEEL SO MIXED UP AND CONFUSED INSIDE
PEOPLE MAY THINK IM OK,BUT REALLY IM LIKE A LANDSLIDE
IM READY TO ERUPT LIKE A VOLCANO
I MISS YOU,I LOVE YOU,I WANT YOU,I DIDNT WANT TO LET YOU GO

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Irene Anness Family (Friend) September 5, 2008

I don't know how to feel
it's all locked up inside,
the emptyness is waking
the tears are running dry.

Your the one who held me
gave comfort when things went wrong,
what do i do without you
I feel my faith is gone.

My heart just doesnt realise
that you are really gone.
A loss that came so suddenly
but will last my whole life long.

Our time just meant so much too me
I know it allways will
the memories locked inside of me
forever to hold on too

You told me that we'd be,
together forever more
partof eachothers lives
but now the door is closed.

Never too be opened
kept locked on both sides now
Although you may have gone away
Your spirit will forever stay x x x

Lisa Carlin (Partner) September 5, 2008

the day we met

hi baby this saturday be 2 years since we hooked up we were meant 2 be goin to planet love the place we met 2 years ago. i cant go there now wifout u. me and mikaela just headin out 4 couple drinks celebrate the day we got together. i no u wil be wif me watchin over me and mikaela. love you so much. sweet dreams x x x

Lisa Carlin (Partner) September 5, 2008

CUDDLE ME xxx

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for you lisa, xx irene xx

Irene Anness Family (Friend) September 4, 2008
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